Even death has no preset outcome. You are the one who made everything. The issue is that you largely unintentionally produce it, leading you to believe that it is being thrown at you from outside sources.
You can only produce consciously if you can make anything unconsciously. Ensuring that you construct your life deliberately rather than stumbling through it by making it unintentionally, is the goal of all spiritual processes.
When you put in that effort, you will notice that more and more aspects of your life are self-determined rather than predetermined. 15 to 20 per cent of your life and destiny will be in your hands if you have control over your physical body. 50 to 60 per cent of your life and destiny are in your hands if you have control over your thoughts.
I’m not talking about suicide when I say that if you have control over your very life force, 100 per cent of your life and destiny will be in your hands to the point where you may select the moment of death and when and how you should pass away.
Every instant of your existence can be self-determined, even the womb in which you will be born and the manner in which you will be born.