A light-hearted video featuring a Bengaluru mother avoiding the word ‘elaichi’ (cardamom) has gone viral on social media, drawing laughter and conversation about traditional customs in Indian households.
The video, shared on Instagram by user Rupali Tiwari, has already crossed 2.4 million views, with viewers amused by the mother’s witty explanation.
In the clip, Rupali is seen holding a packet of cardamom and explaining that her mother had repeatedly asked her to bring the spice but never mentioned its name. Curious about the reason, she asks her mother directly what the item is called.
Instead of saying the word, the mother replies, “Dadi ke naam,” implying that the spice carries the same name as the grandmother.
Tradition of avoiding elders’ names
The humorous moment stems from a long-standing custom in many Indian families where younger members avoid taking the names of elders directly as a mark of respect.
In the video, Rupali clarifies that her grandmother’s name was Elaichi Devi, which is why her mother avoids saying the name of the spice altogether.
The conversation becomes even funnier when Rupali asks her mother to name Bollywood actor Ajay Devgn, whose name also happens to match that of her brother-in-law. Her mother once again refuses, saying she cannot say the name aloud.
Internet reacts with humour and debate
The video quickly gained popularity online, with users leaving humorous comments celebrating the moment.
Some viewers joked about the situation, with one comment reading, “Dadi flavour wali chai is the best,” while another humorously suggested, “Chai mein do dadi daal do.”
Others found the mother’s behaviour endearing, calling her “cute” and praising the innocence and warmth captured in the video.
However, a few viewers also used the opportunity to question traditional practices, suggesting that such customs—particularly those followed by women—reflect long-standing social norms that younger generations are gradually moving away from.
Despite the mixed reactions, the video continues to spread smiles online, highlighting how everyday family moments and cultural traditions can resonate widely across social media platforms.