In every 30-something Indian woman’s life, there often comes a moment when she is confronted with the question: “Why are you still single?” Despite advancements in societal attitudes, the belief that life diminishes in significance after 30 still lingers.
Reflecting on her own journey, she found herself in a stable relationship at 29 but realized by their two-year anniversary that “settling down” no longer aligned with her evolving self. Influenced by a desire to break free from societal expectations and personal history, she chose solitude, moving into a one-bedroom flat. This decision allowed her to explore writing, painting, and self-reflection, challenging the notion that living alone is “weird.”
Her travels through Goa and Kerala exposed her to a range of relationship experiences, reinforcing that there is no singular “right” way to live or love. Whether in traditional monogamous setups or open relationships, everyone faces unique challenges.
Through these encounters, she learned that happiness and problems coexist for everyone, regardless of their path. Embracing this truth, she continues her journey as a sovereign individual, confident that there is no prescribed way to live.