A young girl from Jodhpur is challenging deep-rooted traditions after being married off as a child, highlighting the continuing issue of child marriage in parts of Rajasthan.
Married at 12 without understanding
Khushbu was just 12 years old when her family arranged her marriage in 2016. At the time, she could not fully understand the significance of the ceremony or the life-changing implications it would carry.
Her wedding took place during a traditional ritual known as “Mausar”, a communal feast organised after the death of a family elder, where multiple marriages are often conducted together.
Tradition and economic factors
In some rural communities, marriages during Mausar are believed to bring peace to the departed soul. Families also see it as a practical way to reduce wedding expenses by combining ceremonies.
Khushbu’s marriage was conducted during the Mausar of her great-grandmother.
Reality unfolds over time
As she grew older, Khushbu began to understand the realities of her situation. She learnt that her husband had limited education, no stable employment and struggled with addictions.
Pressure from her in-laws to move to her matrimonial home further intensified her distress.
Determined to change her path
Faced with an uncertain future, Khushbu has now resolved to leave the marriage and rebuild her life on her own terms.
Her story reflects the growing awareness among young girls about their rights and the desire to break free from harmful practices.
Ongoing challenge of child marriage
Despite legal prohibitions, child marriage continues to persist in some regions due to social customs, economic pressures and lack of awareness.
Khushbu’s journey underscores the need for continued efforts in education, awareness and enforcement to protect children’s rights.