A Canadian national living in India, Caleb Friesen, has ignited widespread discussion online after urging Indians to embrace basic politeness in daily life. In a video posted to Instagram and X, Friesen introduced the ‘Polite India Challenge’, suggesting five simple habits that could positively transform social interactions.
His message was direct: “Indians, be more polite.” The five habits included:
- Thank service workers like delivery agents and shopkeepers.
- Say “excuse me” and “sorry” when appropriate.
- Avoid yelling at drivers and waiters.
- Queue patiently without pushing.
- Smile and make eye contact with strangers.
“These small actions,” Friesen claimed, “don’t cost a rupee but could change the tone of society.” The video quickly went viral, sparking reactions ranging from agreement to indignation.
One user shared, “Abroad, thanking bus drivers was normal. In India, I was asked, ‘Why thank someone for doing their job?’” Others felt civility should be taught early, calling on teachers and parents to instill such habits.
Some defended Indian etiquette, saying, “We’ve been raised with this from the start,” while others questioned Friesen’s tone. “Stop sounding superior,” one commenter said. Another noted, “Politeness isn’t the main issue—impatience is. Fix that, and manners will follow.”
Despite the mixed feedback, Friesen’s challenge struck a chord, prompting a larger reflection on public behavior, empathy, and mindset in modern India.
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