In an era where weddings are more personalized and experiential than ever, one bride-to-be may have pushed the boundaries of what’s considered acceptable. A viral Reddit post, now deleted but widely reported, revealed how a bride invited close friends for a “friends’ night out” — only to ask them to pay ₹15,000 each at the end of the evening.

Held at an upscale restaurant in a posh area, the event was informal — not a haldi or mehndi — but still part of the wedding festivities. The fixed menu included premium food and alcohol, making the dinner feel like a special celebration. However, guests were blindsided when the bride asked to split the bill.

“If we were paying, why a fixed menu? Why not let us choose what we want?” one attendee questioned.
“It felt more like a surprise cover charge than a get-together,” said another.

While some attendees shrugged off the expense, others were visibly uncomfortable or even felt deceived. The incident struck a nerve, especially in a country like India where hospitality is sacrosanct — especially during weddings.

Online reactions were swift and varied:

  • “₹15K per person? That’s insane.”
  • “This isn’t just tone-deaf. It’s tactless.”
  • “I get splitting bills, but not during wedding functions.”

As wedding culture evolves, so does the need for clarity and communication. Whether practical or presumptuous, this bride’s move has left many debating — where do we draw the line?

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