A Bengaluru woman recently took to social media to share her concerns about her husband’s difficulty in securing a high-paying job in Gurgaon. Married for six years, the couple has faced months of living apart due to career and family commitments. Seeking advice on how to navigate this situation, her heartfelt post resonated with many, shining a light on the challenges of balancing career goals with family life.
The couple had been living in Bengaluru, where the husband’s career flourished, bringing in a combined monthly income of nearly Rs 5 lakhs. In 2022, the woman left her job to start her own business, often traveling between cities, while her husband’s salary increased. However, after the birth of their baby in 2024, managing frequent travel became difficult, prompting them to consider relocating to Gurgaon for a better work-life balance. Despite extensive job applications and networking efforts, the husband has struggled to find a well-paying job in Gurgaon. The woman also expressed concerns over the pay disparity between Bengaluru and Gurgaon, leaving the couple at a crossroads.
The couple now faces a tough decision: should they move back to Bengaluru to support the husband’s career, or should he accept a lower salary in Gurgaon to prioritize family life?
Social media responses flooded in, with many acknowledging the challenges of finding senior roles and urging the couple to focus on what works best for their family. Some suggested the woman delegate tasks in her business to reduce travel demands, while others advised evaluating all financial factors before making a decision, especially with the added expenses of a newborn. A few even suggested considering relocating to a healthier city like Bengaluru for the child’s well-being, citing the air quality in Gurgaon.
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