The controversy surrounding the viral ₹370 biryani remark by social media influencer Himanshu Jangra has triggered wider conversations about dating culture, consent and women’s safety, with several women in Bengaluru sharing personal experiences that highlight deeper concerns.
The debate gained momentum after Jangra’s account of a date drew criticism online. Although he later claimed that parts of the story had been improvised, the incident prompted discussions about entitlement, coercion and behaviour that many women say they have encountered while dating.
Women recount uncomfortable encounters
Several women in Bengaluru described situations where dates became uncomfortable or intimidating after men expected affection or intimacy in return for paying for meals.
One woman recalled a date where the man repeatedly insisted on covering the bill despite her objections. When she later declined a kiss, he allegedly became aggressive and accused her of taking advantage of him.
Another woman shared an experience involving a longtime acquaintance who invited her home and suggested a sexualised version of a game. Despite expressing discomfort, she said he continued pushing increasingly intimate interactions, leaving her feeling pressured and unsafe.
Consent and safety concerns
Some women said they had experienced situations where men attempted physical contact without consent, often after consuming alcohol or during private meetings. Others described feeling unable to react immediately because they were shocked, frightened or uncertain how to respond in the moment.
Experts note that consent must be clear, voluntary and ongoing, and that social expectations surrounding dating should never be interpreted as entitlement to physical intimacy.
Misogyny beyond physical behaviour
Several women also described encountering openly misogynistic attitudes during dates. Some recounted conversations in which men criticised women’s independence, questioned their careers or expressed preferences for financially dependent partners.
Others spoke of controlling behaviour, including requests to share live locations or install tracking applications after only a brief acquaintance.
The discussion has renewed calls for greater awareness about healthy relationships, personal boundaries and respectful behaviour. Many women say the issue extends beyond individual incidents and reflects broader societal attitudes towards consent, gender equality and safety in modern dating culture.