What begins as a casual poker game, a friendly bet or a sports wager can sometimes develop into a devastating addiction, with families often realising the seriousness only after financial, academic and emotional damage has already occurred.
A recent ESPN report has highlighted the struggle of a young American college student, identified by the pseudonym Amit, whose gambling addiction began with poker in a university dormitory before progressing to sports betting.
A casual game turns into a serious addiction
Amit entered college as an honours student with ambitions of becoming an engineer. However, within two years, gambling had affected his studies, finances and personal life.
His parents began noticing unexplained transactions in their bank accounts and repeated excuses. He eventually dropped out of classes and returned home after his family realised how deeply gambling had affected him.
Experts describe gambling disorder as a hidden addiction because there may be no obvious physical signs. Unlike substance addiction, a person struggling with gambling can appear outwardly healthy while facing serious financial and emotional difficulties.
Young people increasingly exposed to betting
The ESPN report noted that young people are increasingly exposed to gambling through sports broadcasts, social media, video games and betting advertisements. A 2025 Common Sense Media survey found that more than one-third of 11- to 17-year-olds had gambled in some form during the previous year.
Amit’s family initially believed that stopping gambling was simply a matter of willpower. They later learnt that recovery required specialised support and that the consequences affected the entire family.
The family eventually sought help through Gam-Anon, a fellowship supporting people affected by a loved one’s gambling problem. Amit also entered treatment and began rebuilding his life.
Families need support, not silence
The story underlines how shame can prevent families from seeking timely help. Gambling addiction can involve repeated attempts to recover lost money, a pattern commonly known as chasing losses, potentially deepening both financial and emotional distress.
The warning is relevant in India too, where concerns over online betting and gaming have grown. News Karnataka has previously reported cases involving online betting addiction and serious financial and family consequences.
Recognising warning signs early, encouraging open conversations and seeking professional help can help families intervene before gambling causes irreversible harm.